约（人）出去
开口约约会
中文易错约出去是 ask someone out，代词夹中间。
搭配ask someone out · ask her out
易混go out with · ask for
短语动词 › 人际与情绪 › 恋爱与家庭
Relationships and family
恋爱与家庭
约会、相处、疏远、分手，还有跟家里人。
可分 = 代词必须放中间：pick me up
名词放中间或后面都行：pick up my friend / pick my friend up
和……交往
在谈恋爱
中文易错交往是 go out with；出门玩是 go out。
搭配go out with someone · go out together
易混see someone · go out
爱上；上当
喜欢上一个人
中文易错爱上 是 fall for；也指“上当”。
搭配fall for someone · fall for a scam
易混fall in love · be into
渐渐疏远
关系慢慢变淡
中文易错疏远是 drift apart，画面是两条船漂开。
搭配drift apart over time · drift apart from friends
易混grow apart · fall out
对……不忠
感情上背叛
中文易错出轨是 cheat on someone；cheat at 是考试作弊。
搭配cheat on a partner · cheat on someone
易混cheat at · mess around
乱来、玩玩而已
感情上不认真
中文易错fool around 也指瞎闹、浪费时间。
搭配fool around with someone · fool around at work
易混mess around · play around
越来越喜欢
一开始一般，后来越来越顺眼
中文易错越来越喜欢是 grow on you；不是“长在你身上”。
搭配grow on someone · it grows on you
易混warm to · get into
开始喜欢
态度转暖
中文易错开始喜欢是 warm to；warm up to 同义但更口语。
搭配warm to an idea · warm to someone
易混grow on · warm up to
依靠
情感上依赖
中文易错依靠是 lean on；lean 单独是倾斜。
搭配lean on family · lean on a friend
易混count on · rely on
关心一下
看看对方怎么样
中文易错关心是 check in on；check on 也可以。
搭配check in on a friend · check in on your parents
易混look in on · check up on
探望一下
顺路看看
中文易错探望是 look in on；look into 是调查。
搭配look in on a neighbor · look in on the kids
易混check in on · drop in
问起（近况）
打听某人好不好
中文易错问起是 ask after；ask for 是要求。
搭配ask after someone · ask after your family
易混ask for · ask about
收到（某人）消息
对方联系你
中文易错收到消息是 hear from；hear about 是听说某事。
搭配hear from a friend · hear from you soon
易混hear about · hear back
维系住
关系或局面没散
中文易错维系是 hold together；hold on 是坚持住。
搭配hold a family together · hold it together
易混hold on · keep together
用心经营（关系）
持续投入
中文易错经营是 work at；work on 是改进某事。
搭配work at a relationship · work at it
易混work on · put into
放下（过去）
不再纠结
中文易错放下过去是 put behind you；不是 forget it（太绝对）。
搭配put the past behind you · put it behind
易混move on · get over
往前走
从一段关系里走出来
中文易错move on 是继续往前；move in 是搬进去。
搭配move on after a breakup · move on with life
易混get over · put behind
补偿（某人）
用行动弥补
中文易错补偿某人是 make it up to someone；it 固定不能省。
搭配make it up to someone · make it up to her
易混make up for · pay back
把话说开
当面讲清楚
中文易错说开是 talk out；talk over 是商量。
搭配talk things out · talk it out
易混have it out · talk over
互相扶持
不分开、互相撑着
中文易错互相扶持是 stick together；stick with 是坚持不换。
搭配stick together as a family · stick together through hard times
易混hold together · stand by
支持、不离不弃
站在某人一边
中文易错支持是 stand by someone；stand in 是代替。
搭配stand by a friend · stand by someone
易混stand up for · back up
扎根、定居
在一个地方安定下来
中文易错扎根是 put down roots；不是“放下根”。
搭配put down roots in a city · put down roots here
易混settle down · settle in
敬重
把某人当榜样
中文易错敬重是 look up to；look down on 是看不起。
搭配look up to a mentor · look up to someone
易混look down on · admire
长大
从孩子长成大人
中文易错长大是 grow up；grow into 是长成某种样子。
搭配grow up abroad · grow up fast
易混bring up · grow into
撮合、聚到一起
让两个人或群体靠近
中文易错撮合是 bring together；bring up 是养大。
搭配bring people together · bring them together
易混bring up · set up
两两配对
聚会里各自成对
中文易错配对是 pair off；pair up 是合作配对。
搭配pair off at a party · pair off with someone
易混pair up · match up
脱离
从关系或群体里抽身
中文易错脱离是 break away (from)；break up 是分手。
搭配break away from family · break away from the group
易混break up · pull away
抛下（某人）
一走了之
中文易错抛下是 walk out on；walk out 是退场。
搭配walk out on someone · walk out on a marriage
易混walk away · walk out
跟人跑了
私奔或卷走
中文易错跟人跑是 run off with；run away 是逃走。
搭配run off with someone · run off with the money
易混run away from · take off with
长得像（家人）
外貌或性格像
中文易错像家人是 take after；look like 只指外貌。
搭配take after your mother · take after someone
易混look like · take to